Relationships 101

As you work with children—no matter what their ages or life stages—relationships are paramount. From babies to teens, kids in class and at home learn and thrive in positive relationships.

Of course, each of us has a different personality. Some are full of excitement and smiles. Others of us are more quiet and serious. All of this is fine. In fact, kids need both lighthearted and serious influences. Regardless of your personality, you can relate to preschoolers and children with genuineness and heartfelt concern. Another important ingredient is unconditional love.

Keep these important points in mind…

1. Be honest and authentic. Be the person you are.
2. Eye contact is important. Work to relate to the children in your class or in your home by getting at their eye level to talk with them and to listen to what they say.
3. Use facial expressions to let the child know you are a part of the conversation.
4. Look for areas of common interest. You can share together through reading books, playing games, and group interaction with the entire class.
5. Sometimes you have a few minutes in class or at home when you can have “one-on-one” interaction. The starting point could be the Bible story, or it could even be one of the activity sheets. While the child is working on an activity page, extend the learning opportunity by talking about your own observations or experiences related to the focus of the activity. Share from your heart.

Relationships are not rocket science, but they are an essential part of being an effective parent or teacher.

David Morrow
Preschool Pastor
Long Hollow Baptist Church
Hendersonville, Tennessee

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